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How Cancer Surgery Can Affect Sex for Women

Sex is an important part of life, but certain types of cancer surgery can affect your sexual desire, how you experience sex, and how you express yourself sexually. These problems can be temporary or last long-term after treatment has finished.

Learn how surgery for cancer could affect your sex life and how to get help managing these problems.

Talking with your surgeon about sexual problems

Don't assume your cancer care team will ask you about sexual problems. Remember, if they don't know you have a problem, they can't help you manage it.

  • Before you have surgery, ask how the surgery could affect sex for you in the future.
  • As you go through treatment and follow-up care, tell them about any changes you have in your sexual life or any new problems that come up.

The information below describes common sexual problems faced by adult women (or people with female reproductive organs*) after certain types of cancer surgery. You might have problems or needs that aren’t addressed here. Your cancer care team can help you manage your specific situation.

*To learn more about the gender terms used here, and how to start the conversation with your cancer care team about gender identity and sexual orientation, see Gender Identity, Sexual Orientation, and Cancer Treatment.

How side effects from surgery can affect sexual desire

Surgery to any part of your body can lower your desire for sex while you recover.

Pain can make you feel worried, depressed, or easily discouraged, which can make it hard for you to get excited about sexual activity. It can also make it hard for you to find a comfortable position for sex.

Other side effects of surgery that can lower your desire for sex include:

  • Fatigue (feeling very tired)
  • Changes in how your body looks, such as the loss of one or both breasts
  • Changes in how your stool (poop) leaves your body
  • Changes in how your urine leaves your body
  • Changes in how you breathe

Some of these side effects, like fatigue and pain, will likely get better over time. But even if a side effect from surgery is permanent, there are many ways to manage and adapt to these changes and have a fulfilling sex life. Learn more in Managing Sexual Side Effects as a Woman with Cancer.

How pelvic surgery can affect sex

Pelvic surgery for cancer might change how you experience sex and how you express yourself sexually.  

Radical hysterectomy is a type of surgery used to treat some cervical, ovarian and endometrial cancers. There are a few types of radical hysterectomy, but they all involve removing your uterus and the ligaments (tissue fibers) that hold it in place.

If your cervix is removed: Your cervix and 1 or 2 inches of the vagina around your cervix might also be removed, depending on the type of cancer you have and how advanced it is. After taking out your cervix, the surgeon stitches your vagina at its top. The top of the vagina soon seals with scar tissue and becomes a closed tube.

Simple or modified hysterectomy: Not everyone with these types of cancer will need a radical hysterectomy. Some women can have a simple or modified radical hysterectomy, which removes less tissue and is less likely to cause sexual problems.

If your ovaries are removed: Depending on your type of cancer, age, stage of life, and preferences, the surgeon might leave an ovary or part of one during a hysterectomy. If you haven’t yet started menopause, the remaining ovary can make enough hormones to help prevent early menopause.

Because your uterus is removed, you won’t have menstrual periods and won’t be able to carry a pregnancy. The surgeon and cancer care team can help you weigh the risks and benefits of removing one or both ovaries.

How a radical hysterectomy can affect your sexual function

Having a radical hysterectomy can change how you experience sex.

  • Your vagina may be shorter and drier than before. This can make sex more painful for a while. These problems are likely to be worse if you had pelvic radiation along with a radical hysterectomy.
  • Lubrication during vaginal sex can help. Many women can still have vaginal sex as long as their vagina is well-lubricated.
  • Trying different positions can help. You can find tips for making sex more comfortable in Managing Sexual Side Effects as a Woman with Cancer.
  • You may have some numbness in your genital area. This might cause some problems having an orgasm after surgery, but this usually gets better in 6–12 months. And you don’t need a uterus or cervix to reach orgasm.
  • Pain or bleeding with intercourse might get better. If you had pain or bleeding with intercourse before you were diagnosed with cancer, you might find that having a hysterectomy improves your sex life by stopping these symptoms.

Cancer of the vulva is often treated with surgery. Depending on how widespread your cancer is, you might just need to have your cancer and some tissue around it removed. Or you may need to have a larger area removed, which may include more of your vulva, nearby lymph nodes, and even your clitoris.

If other organs are affected, such as your bladder, vagina, or rectum, other treatment will usually be used instead.

How a vulvectomy can affect the look and feel of your genitals

A vulvectomy can change the way your vulva (and the structures around it) looks and feels.

  • You might have discomfort if you wear tight pants because the “padding” around your urethra and vagina is gone.
  • The area around your vagina might look very different. The outer and inner lips of your genitals may be partially or entirely removed, and you may have visible scarring.
  • The area around your vagina and urethra might be easily irritated. Lubricant and a light touch can help prevent painful irritation.
  • If scar tissue narrows the entrance to your vagina, penetration may be painful. Vaginal dilators can sometimes help stretch the opening. When scarring is severe, the surgeon may use skin grafts to widen the entrance.
  • Vaginal moisturizers on your external genital area can also be very helpful and provide comfort.

Lymphedema (swelling) could cause problems during sex.

  • When the lymph nodes in your groin have been removed, you may have swelling of your genital areas or legs (lymphedema).
  • This might be temporary, or it can become a long-term problem.
  • It can cause pain, a feeling of heaviness, and fatigue. It also can be a problem during sex. You and your partner can work together to figure out the most comfortable positions and other solutions to manage this.

Surgery to rebuild your vulva

You may feel self-conscious about the scarring and loss of your outer genitals (vulva).

Some women can have reconstructive surgery to rebuild the outer and inner lips of their vulva. That might help with the way your vulva looks, but the feeling (sensation) will be different.

Orgasm after a vulvectomy

You may have problems reaching orgasm after a vulvectomy. This depends on how much of your vulva was removed. You might also need to have your clitoris removed.

The outer genitals, especially the clitoris, are important in a woman’s sexual pleasure. If surgery removed your clitoris and lower vagina, orgasms may not be possible and you might have numbness in the area.

Sex might not be the same as it was before, but you can work with your partner to find new ways of feeling intimacy and pleasure. Learn more in: Managing Sexual Side Effects as a Woman with Cancer.

Pelvic exenteration is the most extensive pelvic surgery. It’s most often used for rectal, vulvar, or cervical cancers that have spread to many organs in the pelvis. It might also be used when a cancer comes back after treatment in the same area where it started but has not spread.

In this surgery, the uterus, cervix, ovaries, fallopian tubes, vagina, and sometimes the bladder, urethra, and/or rectum are removed.

How pelvic exenteration can affect your sexual function

Your sexual function can be affected in many ways after a pelvic exenteration.

  • Ostomy: If your bladder is removed, you will need a urostomy. If your rectum is removed, you will need a colostomy. To learn more about managing an ostomy during sex, see Managing Sexual Side Effects as a Woman with Cancer.
  • Vaginal reconstruction: You might need to have your vagina rebuilt and will likely need to use a dilator. Your surgeon or cancer care team can help you learn how to use this.

Talk to your surgeon before you have surgery to find out which organs they plan to remove and whether you will need any ostomies or to have your vagina rebuilt. Ask what you can expect in the way of sexual function after surgery, including orgasm.

Vaginectomy is surgery to remove the vagina. This surgery is only used for very early-stage vaginal cancers and for cancers that were not cured with radiation. Surgery may be the only treatment needed for a very small vaginal cancer.

The extent of vaginectomy depends on the size, location, and stage of the cancer.

  • If only part of the vagina is removed, it’s called a partial vaginectomy.
  • If the entire vagina is removed, it’s called a total vaginectomy.
  • Radical vaginectomy removes the vagina along with the supporting tissues around it. This type of surgery may be considered for patients with vaginal cancer that cannot be treated with radiation or chemotherapy.

Depending on the amount of the vagina that was removed, you might still be able to have sexual intercourse, but a lubricant might be needed.

Vaginal reconstruction might be an option if most or all of your vagina was removed.

A radical cystectomy is done to treat some bladder cancers. During this surgery, your bladder, uterus, ovaries, fallopian tubes, cervix, and the front wall of your vagina are removed. Your urethra may also be removed if your bladder cancer has spread there.

This surgery tends to affect sex for most women, but things can often be done during surgery to help preserve your sexual function.

Changes to your vagina after radical cystectomy

Radical cystectomy often removes the front part of the vagina. But for many women, penetration is still possible.

  • If your vagina is rebuilt: Surgeons sometimes rebuild the vaginal tube using the back wall of the vagina or a skin graft. There are pros and cons with both types of vaginal reconstruction.
  • If your vagina isn’t rebuilt: If your vagina is shorter because it hasn’t been reconstructed, you can still enjoy vaginal sex. Certain sexual positions limit the depth of penetration, like those where the partners are side by side or with you on top.

Orgasm after radical cystectomy

Many women who have the front wall of their vagina removed are still able to have orgasms, but some women have problems with orgasms.

  • Nerve-sparing surgery: If the 2 nerve bundles that run along each side of your vagina are damaged during surgery, your orgasms may be affected. Talk with your doctor before surgery to see if these nerves can be spared (left in place). If so, this can help increase your chance of having orgasms after surgery.
  • Removing part of your urethra: If your bladder cancer grows into your urethra (the tube that empties urine from your bladder), the surgeon might need to remove the part of your urethra that opens to the outside of your body. This can decrease the blood supply to your clitoris, which may affect your ability to be sexually aroused or have an orgasm. Talk with your surgeon about whether the end of your urethra can be spared and how your surgery might affect the function of your clitoris.

Urinary diversion after radical cystectomy

After a radical cystectomy, you will need a different way to store and pass urine out of your body. How this happens will depend on several things, including whether or not your urethra is also removed.

  • You may need a urostomy. A urostomy is an opening on your abdomen (belly) where urine can pass out of your body.
  • You may need a urostomy pouch. If you have a urostomy, you might need to wear a pouch (bag) on the outside of our body for urine to drain into.

This will take getting used to, but there are ways to reduce the effect a urostomy has on your sex life. See Managing Sexual Side Effects as a Woman with Cancer to learn more.

Vaginal reconstruction after pelvic surgery

Pelvic surgery for some types of cancer can damage your vagina. This might mean part or all of your vagina is removed.

If part of your vagina is removed, it may be narrower or shorter. You might find penetration during sex painful or awkward. See Managing Sexual Side Effects as a Woman with Cancer for tips on how to deal with these changes.

If all or most of your vagina is removed, your surgeon might need to rebuild your vagina with tissue from another part of your body. A neovagina (new vagina) can be made from skin, a combination of muscle and skin from other areas of your body, or a clean piece of bowel. Your new vagina can allow you to have vaginal sex.

Care of your rebuilt vagina

Talk to your surgeon or cancer care team about what you will need to do to take care of your neovagina after surgery. How you care for it will depend on what type of tissue was used to rebuild it.

You might need to use:

  • A stent: A stent is a special form or tube worn inside your vagina to keep it stretched as it heals. It can decrease the chance that your vagina will shrink, scar, or close after surgery. Your surgeon or cancer care team will let you know when the stent needs to be used and what to do if you have side effects from it.
  • A dilator: A dilator is used to stretch out your vagina for a few minutes each day so it stays open. This is especially important if you are not having regular vaginal sex. Using a dilator also makes having pelvic exams easier. 
  • A water-based lubricant before sex: A vagina that is rebuilt with muscle and skin makes little or no natural lubricant when you get aroused. You might need to prepare for sex by spreading a gel inside your vagina.
  • A douche: Your rebuilt vagina does not have the usual ability to keep itself clean. You may need to use a douche to keep the tissues clean. Ask your surgeon or cancer care team about the best way to keep your vagina clean.

Don’t be alarmed if you find a little hair inside your vagina. This could happen if the tissue used to create your new vagina has hair on it. Most women don’t notice this after a while.

Sex with your rebuilt vagina

During sex with a rebuilt vagina, you may feel like you are being touched in the area the skin came from. This is because the walls of the vagina are still attached to their original nerve supply. Over time, these feelings become less distracting. They can even become sexually arousing.

You and your partner will need to try different sexual positions to find what works best. Minor bleeding or spotting after penetration is not a cause for alarm, but heavy or increased bleeding should be discussed with your cancer care team.

How abdominoperineal resection can affect sex

Abdominoperineal (AP) resection is a type of surgery that may be used to treat rectal cancer. Your anus and rectum are removed, and you will need a colostomy so stool (poop) can pass out of your body. You will have a bag or pouch attached to your abdomen (belly) for the stool to drain into.

Because your bladder, vagina, and cervix might also be moved during this surgery, you may find vaginal sex uncomfortable. This is often temporary, but it might last longer term for some people. It might help to try different sexual positions so you can control the depth of penetration by your partner.

AP resection doesn’t damage the nerves that control feeling in your genitals, so you will likely be able to have an orgasm. You may notice vaginal dryness, especially if you also had radiation therapy to the area. If so, a water-based gel lubricant can help make vaginal sex more comfortable.

How surgery for breast cancer can affect sex

Surgery for breast cancer might not directly affect your sexual function, and it doesn't impact your ability to have intercourse or other penetrative sex. But it can impact on your body image. Also, you may experience loss of feeling in all or part of your breast. This can reduce the sensation you have when you are touched during sexual activity.

Sex after breast-conserving surgery

If you had breast-conserving surgery (segmental mastectomy or lumpectomy) followed by radiation treatment, you may have scars on your breast. Your breast might also have a different shape, feel, or size.

While you get radiation, the skin around your breast may become red and swollen. Your breast also may be tender or painful in places. As time passes, you may notice areas of numbness or decreased sensation near the surgical scar.

Sex after a mastectomy

During a mastectomy, nerves are cut. This causes a loss of feeling on the side where the breast was. The skin on your chest can feel numb (no feeling) or be more sensitive. Normal feeling might return after a few months or years, or it might not return at all.

You may still enjoy being stroked around the area of the healed scar. Or you may not like being touched there. Some women no longer enjoy having their remaining breast and nipple touched after the other breast is removed.

You might feel self-conscious being the partner on top during sex. This position makes it easy to notice that your breast is missing. Some women choose to wear their breast prosthesis during sexual activity using a short nightgown, camisole, or bra to keep it in place. Other women find the breast prosthesis awkward or in the way during sex.

Sex after breast reconstruction

Many women who have surgery for breast cancer choose to have breast reconstruction. This surgery rebuilds the shape and size of your breast. Breast reconstruction might help you feel better about how your body looks and feels.

You might choose to have your nipple and areola reconstructed along with your breast. Tattooing can be done a few months after the surgery, so the nipple and areola match the color of your other breast.

Or you might decide to have just your breast tattooed without nipple reconstruction. A skilled plastic surgeon or other professional may be able to make the flat tattoo look 3-dimensional.

Some types of breast reconstruction, such as a tissue (flap) breast reconstruction, might also help you regain feeling in your breast. When talking to a surgeon about your options, ask if you might gain feeling in your reconstructed breast.

Read more in Breast Reconstruction Surgery and talk to your cancer care team, surgeon, and gynecologist about your options.

Learn more

You can find out about the effects of surgery for specific types of cancers in All About Cancer.

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